Here lies the biggest problem of all. It’s an issue that has been discussed to death by women for generations, and still not fixed. And how will it ever stop when there are still women who fake orgasms? That’s frustrating to hear! I don’t know what kind of men you attract, but there are a lot of decent men out there who LOVE to please women…like the guy you probably hurt when you wouldn’t allow him to make you cum.
The biggest problem here is that as a so-called feminist, you have probably embedded in your mind that men have no feelings. They feel just as much, they hurt just as much. (I mean, just listen to the Country radio station some time) Testosterone is why they express emotions differently. They are mentally and physically built as protectors and providers.
Strangely, their universal boys club has no advantages when it comes to procreation or relationships, which is the basis of all Male action: Money, Power, Respect= that one chance of hope for a life mate. Their entire lives revolve around us. That kinda makes us powerful enough to be responsible for our actions. Would it be so hard to let your partner know what turns you on? If you are already dating, trust me, he will want to know that information.
Sex without an orgasm is like eating food and not swallowing. Useless.
I believe men have their own battles to fight just to get laid in the first place. It’s up to women to teach them how to please. Where else and how else will they learn?
