Interesting read, Ally. On the contrary, this type of fantasy does not express “daddy issues” but quite the opposite. You are probably used to being treated well by men, which in fact piqued your curiosity of how sexy it may feel to be treated unsuitably. That is not a simple fantasy because it’s hard for a gentleman to act less than, which is probably why those guys were so confused about the beer on the nightstand story. I hate to say it, but if you really want this fantasy to come true…it might have to come from hooking up with an asshole.