This article was extremely truthful and heartfelt. You are absolutely right to feel that way. A lot of your reasons for not getting married are personally shared. It’s such a gamble to take such a huge risk with your heart and your household. As the saying goes, people don’t change…their masks just fall off. You never really know what’s to come until you let the cards fall.
My situation is a little different than yours, as I am a mother. We are currently battling kidney disease together. It’s a lot to handle on top of having a relationship. It didn’t work out between his father and me. I decided to keep relationships away or at bay since then. It’s been easier for the both of us. I simply don’t believe in dating after having a child.
By making this decision, I have gained a lot more personal freedom in the outcome. I feel that marriage just isn’t for me. It’s never appealed to me as a goal. My goals are more artistic and financial. If I do settle down with anyone, I would like it to be at a less hectic time. If it never happens, I would be completely content with being a true bachelorette for the rest of my life.
Thanks so much for sharing! :)