Please, Control Your Bleeding.

My parents do not believe in band-aids, bandages, or spirits.

They cut you and then sit in the midst of the blood, avoiding the dark-red puddles, leaving you to control the bleeding.

Mother walks with a belly pregnant with words- criticisms, insults, commendation — swelling and growing.

Father remains quite, a shy ocean enjoying the calm and heat of the sun.


Even after the first cut has been made

Even after the surprisingly dull pain spreads

Even after the wound opens, exposing everything

My parents do not rush to my side to offer a band-aid or a bandage or a gauze or a spirit

They remain seated:

One, pregnant with words,

The other, quiet and stagnant.

Photo by Jean Gerber

And I am left to control the bleeding.