Sex You The RIGHT Way

Lj
Lj
Aug 26, 2017 · 4 min read

WARNING: EXPLICIT conversation and terminology in the following paragraphs.

For the most part, most people enjoy sex. Let’s just be honest. When was the last time-even if it wasn’t pleasurable, that you felt as if you should stop getting penis or vagina? For those who use urban terms dick & pussy. Some have said that they cannot live without it; can’t go a few days without it. Personally, I have never understood why people are so prone to have sex as if sex cannot wait or something.

I once had an associate that always stated “I nutted in her.” after his encounters. I informed him that there was going to come a day that he regretted bussin’ up in every female he had an encounter with. From my understanding, he has two kids from two different women. Pussy is pussy to me. That isn’t to say that I dive into every woman that I confabulate with, I just simply have conversations with most and some presume that I want them sexually.

My spill on sex. Ready? When I have a desire, I have my desire. Even if I may be horny, that does NOT mean that if I were to be on a social site and like a females pic and compliment her, meaning that I desire her. I may happen to actually like the image and that be that. I have never given ANY woman the impression, intentionally that I wanted them in any form (for those who I definitely did not want). Women, it has been scientifically proven that men are more sexual than women. It’s sort of sad to a degree because women can do something and be completely ambiguous to what she’s doing and doesn’t realize she is turning the man or men on.

I prefer to believe that it’s a mind-over-matter thing. If you truly have the will to want to suppress you sexual desire, it can be done. Women, albeit it may be difficult for you to have stopped with the penetration, you can resort to slurping on the guy. I’m not saying that it’s right, but at least you are trying. Fellas, I’m not advising you to completely stop with droppin’ d@ck in every woman, but you can slow down the percentage- maybe once or twice a week.

Getting that pussy or that dick, is far more than just a “nut”, it’s something beyond that. Sex is a connection. Some of you reading this may know and others may not. Here’s the truth: It’s a transference of emotions as you’re pleasing the other party. It can be licking or penetration. Whichever it is, you are giving yourself to that person. I bet some didn’t know this, but whomever you were with prior to the person you are with now and vice versa, you have slept with all of them.

I’m sure that doesn’t seem realistic nor is am I using technicalities, but it’s true! Most times, people are crazy just because. There was something someone did to them as a consequence, they are unable to shake what was done sexually. For instance fellas, if a woman refers to you as “Daddy” while she riding, there’s a high possibility that someone in her past enjoyed it or she enjoyed the response given as she was saying that. When that pussy gets extremely wet, the anticipation may not only come from the attraction she has towards you, it could also be her attraction to sex as a whole! For my ladies, don’t feel as though I’m just jumping down y’alls throat (Lol).

Ladies, most men have a tendency to be completely dominate in bed (based on what I’ve gathered from different women’s conversations) and I have one idea as to why. They’re dominate because in some cases, they have a low self esteem and the only way that they can feel in control of anything is to have control over you in the bed which can hence become an issue. Why? You’ve guessed it! It’s because they want to feel they are in control of you in EVERY facet of life not merely in the bedroom. Always be mindful the next time you want to jump up and down on that dick, or you want dig in and out that pussy- bare this in mind, if begin to start saying certain expressions and doing certain things after you finish laying it on them, reflect on who they are and what you saw before you laid down with them. The signs are there, you must be vigilant.

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