We have all been in one on one relationships, right? You ever been in a relationship and some really bad shit happens. Then let’s say the bad shit was absolutely, completely one person’s doing. Now you both “want” the relationship to work. What’s the limit on how hard you go into systematically telling that person that they are the root of all issues between you two. No limit? They messed things up, so there’s no redemption. No forgiveness.
Or no?
Take those feelings in your personal life now and react the same way in race situations. Full circle.