Don’t ignore the power of cunnilingus!

Cunnilingus. What an outlandish word standing for a wonder of this world, this pussy’s ambrosia! Personally, just writing or hearing this word makes me ready to remove my panties and be sipped deliciously.

As for all precious and tasty things, it may be difficult to get its nectar. You know, this nectar which mounts you up on cloud nine with a lips’ touch. However, to discover the pleasures of our friend called “cunni”, you should be lucky enough to meet a “cunnilinguistic” partner.

Wait a minute, what is a cunnilingus?

Let’s focus on this word a little bit. Like every strange word, it has an etymological explanation. Cunnilingus comes from Latin origins: “cunnilinctus” is a reconciliation of “cunnus” (vulva) and “lingere” (to lick). The word in itself makes it perfectly clear: you lick a vulva when practicing a cunnilingus.

One day, a friend told me that she hated this practice. I was like “Whaaaaaat??? You don’t like having a cunni????? I mean…why???? You’re f***ing crazy!!!!” Right after the shock passed, I wanted to understand more the reasons why. My friend thought her vulva was ugly and hated her. Consequently, she disliked having someone sticking his face on this body part she loathed. Well, having said that, what could I answer in front of such an argument? Shamelessness is obviously necessary to accept carpet munching. To show this body part which we can’t endure to look on — and well-hidden betwen our legs — is a real challenge if you don’t like it yourself. So, I want to tell you girls, let’s love our vulvas for it is worthing it! Let me tell you why you have to love and embrace the cunnilingus!

First of all, this is an enjoyable moment for the ladies, because our partner is entirely at our disposal. We facesit our partner and he/she works on giving us as much pleasure as possible. His tongue is submitted to our pleasure. During the Roman Empire, the cunnilingus was deprecated, for it put men in situation of submission towards women. Come on…when a person licks us, he shows us evidence of his desire to satisfy us. Our partner tastes us and savors us.

The cunnilinguistic, the art of body listening

Hey partners, let me talk to you now! There is one word you should never forget about: listening! A good cunnilingus is not only about knowing where Mr Clitoris is. You have to be able to listen carefully to the body you lick. All women are different. A technique that works with one woman may not work with another one. There is no doubt that listening the woman’s body can allow any licker to become a cunni-guru! Furthermore, this advice is applicable for sexual intercourse in general.

Remember when I told you that the etymology of cunnilingus means licking the vulva? Alright, so please gentlemen, stop focusing only on clit licking! The vulva of a woman is full of erogenous zones you should explore. Why deprive yourself from this exploration and focus only on a unique spot? Of course, stimulating the clitoris is essential, provided that you know how to do it the good way. If you focus on it too much, you will get nothing but an “ouch” and wag uselessly on her pussy. The labia, the vagina, the lady garden, the inner thighs, your various tongue movements, your fingers, your mouth, your breath, your slight biting, the positions, all her body parts… if you master all this while practicing a cunnilingus, she will only want one thing: make it last longer!

A good cunnilingus is the one giving so much pleasure that your partner will retain the orgasm as long as possible. She will want more, retain until she can’t hold it no more and let her body explode!

Gentlemen, don’t misunderstand me please, and do not focus only on the orgasm either! This is a wow moment to have an orgasm during a cunnilingus, I cannot deny it. But according to me, the pleasure of a cunnilingus lies in the act itself. When somebody licked you well, thinking about his wet mouth between your legs should liquefy you instantly. When somebdy licked you well, you should feel that coming fast would be a waste. This is definitely not only about the orgasm.

Whatever the position, being licked is all good!

Back on you women! Whether you like to facesit your partner, to stand, to lie on your back or the 69, the cunnilingus is a must-have for our female sexuality. We can also enjoy a blowjob, so why not embrace it? If you still feel uncomfortable with the idea, keep in mind that you should never be ashamed of your pussy. Don’t be embarrassed to offer yourself, to live the pleasure of being deliciously eaten by a ravenous mouth. If you or your partner really feel ill-at-ease with this sexual activity, you can still try sextoys. For instance, the Sqweel Go is a sextoy which imitates the cunnilingus. Personally, I never tried this kind of sextoy, but I read a review about the Sqweel Go on the French blog 69 désirs. Do not hesitate to share your opinion if you ever tried a similar sextoy!

The Sqweel Go

Whether you are the licker or the licked ones, the cunnilingus wants to do you good! Do not neglect it during your sexual intercourse. Learn to explore, to appreciate, to reinvent, to savor it. Above all, come, come, come, again and again!