I’m not saying that you should worry 24/7 to the point of losing your hair and sleep and sanity. I’m just saying that whenever you’re trying to make something happen there is a possibility that it doesn’t happen in the happy positive way you think it will. Things can happen. And you have to prepare for the possibility that a bad thing can happen. If you try to plan ahead how you will handle this possible bad situation you’re setting yourself free from the worry and the pain and struggle you might go through when it happens. When the bad thing happens, you’ll know what to do and it will feel like it wasn’t even a set back to begin with! Do you know what I mean? Of course you have to enjoy life and live life to the fullest. But trying to ignore the fact that bad things can happen is not going to do you any good. Oblivion is not always bliss!