LavHappy 40thMy brother and I had a routine. I call it routine because it was always the same every year on 16th October. I’d call him to wish him happy…Oct 16, 2020Oct 16, 2020
Lav16 Years.“There’s a club. The Dead Dads Club. And you can’t be in it, until you’re in it. You can try to understand, you can sympathize. But until…Aug 30, 2020Aug 30, 2020
LavIt’s late and I’m reading James Frey’s book A Million Little Pieces.I get a lot more of these moments. When my whole body is stiff with sadness and weary. I could be in the midst of catching the most…Aug 26, 2020Aug 26, 2020
LavWhatever stage of grief this is…is hard.I have to go do something I was meant to do with my big brother. He was meant to hold my hand through and through. Yet here I am, putting…Aug 14, 2020Aug 14, 2020
LavSuzyMy big brother wrote me a song. A praise song. A local Luo artist stole and recorded it and gained popularity from it but, my big brother…Jul 2, 2020Jul 2, 2020