When my husband said these words I knew I’d made the right choice to divorce himI get it: if your wife wants a divorce you might be gutted, pissed off, heartbroken. You might get enraged, cry, or go on a three-day…Nov 1818Nov 1818
Is my toxic marriage just a clash of cultures?Confession: I loved the exoticness of our relationship when we first met…Oct 154Oct 154
Blaming your abuser won’t heal you — but this might…I identified as a victim of emotional abuse for about three weeks.Sep 2913Sep 2913
The message you should NEVER send to someone who’s getting divorcedI’ve received this message twice now…Sep 417Sep 417
What to do on your wedding anniversary when you’re getting divorcedAnd nope, it’s probably not what you think you should do…Aug 31Aug 31
How to know when it’s time to end your marriage (even when you have children)“How did you know it was time?” I asked my divorced friend more than once.Aug 288Aug 288
Is this emotional abuse? Asking for a friend…My husband told me he felt an internal sadness and emptiness, I could see it too.Aug 27155Aug 27155
Note to self: Read when emotive texting starts again…The first rule of texting your partner during conflict?Jul 271Jul 271
How to listen to the secret messages of your anxietyMy anxiety feels like a Chinese burn to the heart.Jul 271Jul 271