CW: This article does not include graphic depictions of sexual assault, but it does include details and mentions of trauma responses such as freezing and hypersexuality. By Leo Aquino I am a survivor of rape. After it happened, I felt like something precious had been stolen from me. I isolated…

By Leo Aquino You might have heard terms like “daddy issues,” “thirsty,” or “dramatic” to describe the behavior of women and femmes who face difficulties with unhealthy relationships and sexual patterns. …

By Lindsay Modglin When we think about achieving a mind-blowing orgasm, we often imagine our favorite positions and fantasies, or perhaps a session with the Lioness Smart Vibrator. But do you ever stop to think about how breathing affects your orgasms? Breathing is a natural body function, so it’s easy…

By Leo Aquino Ever since Harvey Weinstein’s fall from grace, the word consent has been the center of heated debates in mainstream media. The definition of sexual consent may seem like common sense, but the experience of giving consent is actually pretty layered. In the context of sex, consent is…

By: Stephanie Delgado and Lindsay Curtis (Check out Lindsay’s original version of this content here!) Table of Contents How do I know if I’m doing it right? Should oral sex be fast or slow? What do I do with the clitoris during oral sex? My tongue is tired. What else can I do…

By Leo Aquino Some days, it only takes a coy smile and a light breeze to arouse me. Other days, it takes a village of porn, erotica, lube, extra foreplay, and a hard-working partner for me to even get there. I used to think these urges were completely random —…

By Stephanie Delgado and Meagan Drillinger Looking for something specific? What is pegging? How do I tell my partner I want to try pegging? Questions for talking about pegging together Testing the waters: trying pegging for the first time Is pegging about being dominated? Why does pegging feel good? Am I still heterosexual if…

By Leo Aquino With gyms closed across the country, it’s been hard for most of us to maintain a regular exercise routine. …

Comparing feminist porn like Else Cinema with inclusive erotica like Dispea By Leo Aquino My relationship with porn started in my pre-teen years, back when families shared one single computer. I had to pray to the goddesses that the dial-up noise wouldn’t wake my parents and sisters through thin walls. I’d flick my bean in front of that trusty computer glow…