Wow, I’m not at all judging her birth. I merely mentioned it because it had brought the topic to my mind. Perhaps I wasn’t clear: how a person wants to give birth is 100% their business. But I’ve been a mom nearly 20 years and have had a lot of conversations about childbirth, and it seems that women often feel pressured to do it the “right” way (meaning the way SOMEONE ELSE thinks is right), or they’re somehow not empowered or brave or strong.