Here’s To The Men Who Are Out There, Doing Stuff

Here’s to the men who are out there, doing stuff.

The men who make the Whole-family Machine work.

The man who leaves room for his wife to let go and play again, sometimes — to be the person he remembers her being when they began dating, and who his wife would like to remember being again, every once in a while; and she can, because her man is out there, and he is doing stuff and he knows that his chances are better that he’ll have more time and energy to play this way, also (sans nagging and guilt-free!) — because the…