7 Habits that Set Socially Intelligent People Apart

Mark
3 min readJun 27, 2023

“In a world where we communicate more through screens than faces, learning the secrets of social intelligence can be your game-changer.”

It was a breezy Tuesday afternoon. Alex, your quintessential introvert, had been invited to a friend’s get-together. For Alex, social events felt like navigating a maze blindfolded. Yet, there was Lisa — always the life of the party, always at ease. Alex wondered, “What’s her secret?”

Intrigued? Read on, as we unfold Lisa’s secret recipe and reveal habits that differentiate socially intelligent people like her from the rest.

1. They Speak the Language of Empathy

Picture Lisa at the party, carefully listening, nodding, and responding — not just to the words, but to the unspoken emotions behind them. In the clutter of ‘react’ and ‘reply,’ Lisa chooses ‘understand.’

Insider Tip: Develop the habit of active listening. Practice empathy. We’re all fighting battles unseen by others. Genuine understanding is rarer than you think, and people notice when they receive it.

2. Adaptive Attitude is their Middle Name

As Darwin put it, “It’s not the strongest, but the most adaptable to change that survive.” Socially intelligent people…

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