Wow! You have so many ideas in this one piece. I hope you’ll keep writing, and unpack the different ideas you are putting forward here.
I had not thought about revolution as play, or play as revolutionary.
What is the relationship between play and social norms? Don’t we need both for society to funtion? In addition to challenging social norms, play helps children to undestand them. Play also helps adults to examine, challenge and tweak social norms. So play and social norms are, or at least should be, in a sort of symbiotic relationship.