Great reading! Thank you for reminding me that there is no fixed personality or character or role that we have to play. It is just that it is much easier (or it at least feels like it is) to ‘outsource’ the design of our life to someone else.
Lately, I have tried new ideas and possible roles for myself. I came to the conclusion that it is time to take back the responsibility of designing our life. The more you stretch, the closer you become to your fullest potential, or in other words: your true self.
What you’ve written resonates with me in a very nice way. I will take steps to change my environment into something which enables me to better face the challenges ahead. I failed with willpower, but I will succeed with smart design.