We Posted Graphic Sex Tapes to a Fan Site for 60 Days. Here’s What It Was Like.
Our homemade porns were extremely hardcore, graphic, fetishy and kinky. People loved them.
Like many married couples, Lauren and I enjoy making our own homemade sex tapes. Our sex tape collection goes back to 2004 and includes hundreds of encounters.
In the early days of COVID, when the swinger world took a big hit, we shot a lot of kinky videos. We had joked about uploading the best sex tapes from our collection to a “fans” site but we never did because nearly all of them showed our faces. Instead, we decided we’d have fun with a “project,” not unlike what many other couples did in the first year of COVID. We decided to make and distribute our own porn.
For our project, we created an account on a popular “fans” site, uploaded newly shot sex tapes over 60 days, and then deactivated our account afterward. None of the videos showed our faces. If our faces accidentally made it into a video, we blurred them.
We also made it clear to our viewers that we are happily married, deeply in love, into dom/sub and swingers suddenly bored because of COVID restrictions. We wanted to feel the thrill of putting ourselves out there and maybe inspiring other couples. And, as crude as it sounds, I had a feeling that Lauren, with her slender body and large, shapely breasts (she’d recently had them enlarged from 34C to 34D), would draw eyeballs — and she did.
Over the 60 days, we posted nearly 50 sex tapes. We used our 4K camera and some new lighting we purchased, both helping us produce high-quality videos. Lots of trial and error with tech! Nothing was off-limits — not closeups of hardcore sex acts, not point-of-view angles such as of us in doggy-style position, not anal sex, not graphic cumshots, not creampies, not cunnilingus, not cum play and eating, no squirting and golden showers, not spanking, not blowjobs, not edging (his and hers), not cock-milking, not role-playing, not stripteases, not masturbation, not vibrators and dildos, not double penetration, not prostate massage, etc. Nothing was off-limits. Every one of the videos was extremely graphic. For us, the more graphic, the more fun.
We watched each video before uploading to ensure our identities remained secret. In two videos, we did allow our voices in the audio because we wanted the viewer to hear Lauren call me “daddy” and me call her “bitch,” “slut,” “whore,” etc. while I pounded her.
The first few videos we uploaded got only a little response, but it was all positive. After our seventh video, viewership and engagement took off, and we’re not totally sure what drove the spike other than it was a video of Lauren masturbating while blowing me. Subscriptions and tips started coming in. Comments poured in. People wanted to see more.
For every graphic or crass comment about Lauren or some attractive feature of her body (e.g., “She’s hot.” “MILF.” “Nice tits.” “Nice ass.” “Wish she’d suck my cock like that.” “I’d do her.”), we got a comment about how apparent our love was in our videos and that it was nice to see. Not just men but women reached out. People commented that it was inspiring to see a married couple in love and having such fun in bed. We had comments about how it was a “different kind of porn.”
By the 60th day, we had built a following; thousands of people came to our page daily to see what new content we’d added. People started making requests. Among the top requests was more POV videos of us in doggy-style as they enjoyed the view of the action. The most popular of the videos we produced featured Lauren, described as a “hotwife” in the title, masturbating with her fingers and vibrating dildo, bringing herself to orgasm — and then getting fucked HARD by me in doggy-style while I spanked her. I aggressively pounded her and the sounds of our skin slapping while I spanked her and she moaned and called me “daddy” got viewers hot. Men and women alike loved her body, her self-pleasure skills and how much she got off on herself while I throttled her cunt.
In all, we made several thousand dollars in 30-day subscriptions and tips, all of which we donated anonymously. We kept none of it. We stuck to our plan and deactivated (but didn’t delete) our page after 60 days.
Our takeaways from this experiment:
There is demand for what we produced
We created super-graphic XXX videos, and people loved watching a married couple in their 40s enjoy each other in such ways.
People want to be kinky
A lot of people want kink in their marriage but don’t know how to make it happen with their partner. This was apparent in the messages we received. We showed them how we do it and how enjoyable it can be when both partners are vulnerable.
How-to videos got huge engagement
We had a great time producing a series of captioned, graphic how-to videos that our audience loved. Topic included how to have fun doggy-style sex, how to have anal sex, how to prostate-massage your man, how to use a vibrator during sex, how to shave your pussy bare and silky-smooth, how to edge a big load out of your man, how to eat pussy, how to use an anal plug, etc. People loved these videos, and they were super fun to make!
Fetish sex videos get views but may not get lots of comments
We produced a few videos that were fetishy — including one showing Lauren urethral-sounding me, another showing my cum seep out of her asshole, and a third featuring Lauren submitting to me with a ball gag, handcuffs, whips, spanking, etc.— thinking they’d get big responses. And while they did get lots of views, the videos that showed us enjoying each other and not engaged in fetishy acts got the best responses.
Love and hardcore aren’t mutually exclusive
Even in a video that may appear on the surface to be hardcore porn or even fetishy, people can recognize if the couple is in love. This observation was shared with us hundreds of times over the 60 days. People appreciated seeing two lovers get off in such erotic ways.
It can become too much
We had to take a few breaks from shooting videos and just enjoy ourselves with no camera rolling. Those lovemaking sessions kept us focused on what really mattered. It’s easy to let the videos take over, which is not healthy.
We have not reactivated our account, but we continue to talk about it. It’s not something we talk a lot about, though, since we’re able to enjoy the lifestyle again with other couples.
