Tips for Caring for Elderly Parents

Mediasophia
3 min readAug 31, 2017

One of the few unavoidable facts of life is that we will all get older, and that as we age, our needs will change. And sometimes it feels as though all too soon, the roles you’ve established with your parents all of your life are suddenly reversed, and your parent is of the age where they are in need of more dedicated care from you. Instead of heading in blindly, check out some of these tips we’ve compiled for best assisting your aging parents.

Do Your Research

Although advanced age comes with a variety of detriments, there are usually only a select few that we will experience in our lifetimes. Make sure that you are up to date on exactly what your parents are being treated for and do some research on the best treatment methods for them. Often times elderly parents will be stubborn and liable to be set in their ways. Having medical research and facts to back up their treatment plans can go a long way to convincing them of any crucial lifestyle changes.

Establish a Plan

Once you have some idea what you are dealing with, establish a plan with your parents and any fellow caregivers you may be working with. Not only will this help prevent everyone from feeling overworked by establishing who is expected to do what tasks, but having a plan in place will help everyone respond more quickly and effectively in an emergency. In addition, it is best to get your plan down in writing so that nothing gets overlooked and so that no misunderstandings will occur. Ensuring the upkeep of any prescribed treatment plans are your best way to ensure a longer, happier life for your parents.

Evaluate Your Options

In addition, it is always best to remain honest with yourself. Can you provide the quality of care that your aging parent requires? Do they need professional care? Do you need help financially or with documents containing legalese? Remember that at the end of the day, there are professionals out there who are there to help establish the proper care plan for you and your parents. If you are unsure of where to begin your search, try looking for elder care seminars in your area like the ones hosted by Shalloway & Shalloway, PA’s Mark Shalloway. There you can learn about elder legal aid in your area and the programs out there that can benefit you.

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