Hahaha, I like your “pleasantly surprised” philosophy! Skeletons for trust and fun for life — I think that’s what I was scraping at.
Thanks for sharing your experience!
I’m so jazzed a bunch of people recommended this story. Like, I live in a world where people are willing to attach their names to a story that uses the word “crapsack” 18 times.
As a fellow NF (I’m an INFJ), I related strongly to a lot of this. Particularly the part about fluctuating between oversharing and under-sharing, being obsessed or being not interested at all. We NFs don’t do things halfway!!