Jake is a violent sociopath.
He attacked me (a male) once in public, and my wife once in public — breaking her finger. Sadly it was in Austria where we couldn’t file charges due to time constraints. I wish we could have pressed charges, but it wasn’t possible as we were both only in country for a few days, and the US couldn’t prosecute.
As above, he acted like he was the victim. Sadly convincing many of our common friends that was the case (I have distanced myself from all of them, and call them “OJ sympathizers.)
I’ve been warning people about Jake for years. Sadly, no one ever listened.