Bull. I’m a guy. I was pushed and manipulated by a woman I adored until I gave in to her insistence that we have sex. She immediately dumped me for the next guy she wanted to fuck. It left deep scars on my psyche. But I was 21 and I’m responsible for not bailing.
As a Christian myself, I think you got the story down pretty well. I’m not sure about this part, however: “he grew up to … protest against a colonial occupying power…” I’d certainly join you in protesting against colonial occupying powers, but that’s not one of the things Jesus did.