1st, never suggest to someone how they should have handled their abusive situation unless explicitly asked. It will always be condescending, paternalistic, and entirely wrong.
2nd, this is her livelihood. It’s not that easy to walk away and just get another job, and control over the…
I see your point, but that’s not the kind of power I was referring to.
I’m referring to the kind of power that means men’s speaking time is measured against actual time, whereas a woman’s speaking time is measured against her silence.