Serena, I too am 19 and am stuck here trying and failing to figure out what I want as well. I am constantly trying to think about my major, my future job, and my ability to actually learn everything in all of my classes. Also, I am constantly wondering should I or should I not major in English? Should I date him and want him even though he keeps changing his mind every 2 seconds?.. Do I belong anywhere? If so, then where do I belong? Or am I just an object standing and blocking other peoples paths from their “set goals”? Lastly will I ever figure out what it is that I actually want to do with my life, or will I just end up somewhere where I always thought I would never wind up at? We should talk some time. Your honesty here is what I like. I’ve always believed that a person who speaks the truth about themselves should always be noticed and talked to. No matter the situation I or the other person is in. I relate so much to your article. Thank you so much for sharing it.