Why you should always say No..as the first response

I think she said No.
Did I hear right?
I am giving her this great opportunity and she said No?
How come?

Either she is stupid;
Or she knows,
That the one thing worse than saying No to everything, is saying Yes to everything.

So she says No to everything..as the first response.

Then she evaluates how it measures up to her objectives and goals.

If it is in line, she then asks herself THE question- 
“Does this fire my heart with enthusiasm?”

If the answer is yes, only then, it is a Yes.

Otherwise, she is going with No.