Happy marriage with a woman who already has a child

Good time of day to you, my dear reader. I am happy that you in happy marriage with a lady from Ukraine. If you are reading this article, probably your chosen one has had a blessing to become a mother and now you need some advice as for how to behave yourself with a nice creature, who is the dearest to your woman — her child. I will gladly share a couple of tips on how to make a good impression on the mother and make her child your companion in winning her heart.

The first thing you should do is get acquainted with your woman’s child. But before meeting him or her in person, ask her some questions about the child. His name, age, interests. All ladies from Ukraine as well as other girls around the world will be happy to tell about their baby and your sincere interest in her son or daughter will make the woman respect and trust you.
It is better to make your first meeting short and as if «unplanned». You can take your lady with her child home from school, for example. On the way home, just watch and listen. Children always have a sincere reaction to strangers and their mother will listen to what they say, watch how they behave and try to estimate your chances to become friends with her child and be a good father for him.

To make this young creature like you, try to imagine that he is an unknown planet, for example, and you are an explorer. Find out the way he or she behaves, thinks, what habits he or she has, and be ready that you might not like everything you will find out. When you have learnt some information about this new planet, do not forget to use your knowledge on occasion. For example, you can say «your daughter can draw well», or «your son is a very polite boy». To be in a happy marriage, all your compliments must be sincere, of course.

You must also try to find some common qualities and interests with the child. This will definitely help you establish friendly relationships with him or her and make your woman think she can have good relationships with you as well as a happy marriage in the future because the child likes you so much.

When you have found the approach to your lady’s child you just have to «keep the fire burning» by following some rules:

1. Always keep your promises and never promise to do something you doubt you can do. In case it happens that you cannot keep your promise for some reason, honestly explain it to the child and try to arrange another day for it.
2. Be attentive to what the child tells you. Listen more, say less and do not try to get rid of this «bothersome» girl or boy. Behave as if you are talking to a friend of yours, be respectful and interested in the conversation and this will help you to establish better relationships not only with the child, but with his or her mother as well. This way you will succeed in your happy marriage.
3. Make sure that what you say never opposed to what you do. If you say that smoking is bad, never think of smoking next to the child. Or if you say that a man has to be gentle, sincere and caring, be a real gentleman yourself and you will have a happy marriage.

Finally, you must remember, that if you want to have a happy marriage with a woman who already has a child, do not forget about your dignity and do not do whatever the child wants. If the child can find the way to manipulate you, both he and your woman can lose respect for you. That is why remember, that you and your lady’s child must be friends and companions, but not a master and his all-mighty slave-genie. Explain the limits clearly and make him accept the rule — you are equal partners. 
Good luck!