On dating men with “potential”

I was also that “Mother Teresa” type who believed in helping man to unleash his “potential”. But it was never rewarding. Since the beginning of this year I went through a serious personal transformation. Now I first of all pay attention to man’s ability to treat me right. If he constantly sings that song “Me, myself, and I” and thinks that the whole world revolves around him, it’s a sign that he is not for me. And, of course, I always ask myself “Do I really like him or maybe i’m just attracted to those traits he possesses that I wish I had?”. When you know yourself, you have far greater chances to choose the right partner.