
First of all, I would not equate today’s relationships with so-called 80s and 90s Relationships. It is due to the reason that we live in the era of technology where we do not experience any Communication-Gap. Anyhow, we hear a lot from the elders that now the relationships are of no worth. Wistfully, when we look around ourselves, Somewhere, it seems quite right.
What lacking is the Emotional Attachment!
Let’s take a deep perception of the soul of the Term Relationship. The relationship is the emotional connectivity between the people where they would not just understand each other, but also accept both the positive and negative aspects of a person. Today, we do not have time to observe the relationships, especially with elders.
We tend to interact with the people who are unknown regarding relations just like us. We have created our own world through Social Media.
We interact, we easily make relationships and we easily break them. So, in the name of modernization, rather than understanding each other, we are busy in building in fake attitudes…
In this era of technology, if I say there is the most stunted communication gap, it will not go wrong. Anyhow, people have different psychologies to perceive objects (Anything or a Person). The least communication-Gap has provided the people with numerous options for selecting people.
You would second the statement that people usually love the person based on his or her attractive voice, financial background, social circle, appearance or personality. This is where the passion for something arises but until it moves and converts into the sincerity, people find many other alternatives better than the previous one. This whole the process is going-on nowadays and is increasing at a greater extent. Of course, it is a dangerous move for relationships.
Today, we are not ready to understand any person or a situation. Rather, we want particular people who concede our demands. If not, then there is a built-in Term for a person who is not accepting our words, “Bewafa” (Ditcher).

The concept of passion for something or someone (Lust) and the Love for something or someone is misinterpreted. Talking about the two words Lust and Love, it is clear both are different. Even, the perception of the people for both the words is quite jarring. When we hear the word Lust, the foremost thing in our mind is something, “Negative” or “Not so Good” or “Not up to Standards”. The word Lust means the Psychological attraction towards anything or anyone. Though, the particular concept is related to the emotions. But, it is considerably different from the Love in the sense that Lust is a term related to the selfishness, and timely desire to have something or someone in your life.
Creating a scenario, a person likes someone, proposes and then gets married. Usually, what happens after some time is the weird or altered behaviour from one of the partner or both. Over time, both stop giving up on their life-styles. A time comes when both get frustrated and decide to get separated! It is not the Divorce paper, rather the separation which gives peace to both the parties.
Both Selected each other, Both Neglected each other and now, Both Bequeathed each other!
People have built the concept that Love marriage is the wrong decision and thus, unsuccessful.
When you like someone, what you praise is beauty and positivity of that particular person- You Call it Love, but IT IS NOT!
Love is when you like someone, You accept the Ugly and Negative side of a person while praising the positivity. In a love, whatever be the relationship, your mother, father, sister, brother, son, daughter, wife or husband, you care for the person and become his or her strength. You would never leave the person alone based on the fact that some of your personal needs are not fulfilled. Again, when someone is curious for the demands is not in love, rather lust for something. Love is all about giving up on the anger, demands and frustration. Love gives the confidence and strength to a relationship.
It is clear that love is about understanding and respecting the people you are in a relationship with. When you know someone, you try to understand the person and would not do anything that can hurt him or her. Consequently, the relationship gets stronger as both the parties are respecting each other. It is not always about the husband and wife, but any of the relationship.

When two people are so connected with each other, there is nothing that can make them apart. They would love the hard times together like friends. The life with such a beautiful bond is life beyond expectations. What needed is the understanding. Understand that love is not just a desire to achieve something.
Love is accepting the person as a whole, keeping aside egos and attitudes!
