VWhere I ramble about anxiety and the importance of listeningI wriggle in the over-stuffed chair, shifting my knees from side-to-side, searching for something to say to fill the silence. This is the…Mar 4, 2017Mar 4, 2017
VToday is my grandmother’s death anniversary. It’s such a bleak word, isn’t it?My grandma was 98 when she died and as with all people who live to be that old her death was neither expected nor unexpected, but certainly…Feb 8, 2017Feb 8, 2017
VA Grocery Run MiracleI am not proud of the way I was today – snappy, agitated and furious. It was strange then that this particular conversation happened today…Oct 21, 2016Oct 21, 2016
VWhat not to say in CancerlandThis post isn’t a brave, beautiful, lyrical one. It’s not going to uplift you or share a new perspective on what happens when you visit…Oct 18, 2016Oct 18, 2016
VDiscovering Anne TownsendI am enjoying reading poetry written by Ann Townsend. In her poem “The Coronary Garden” she describes a suicide attempt:Oct 18, 2016Oct 18, 2016
VTruth, Jealousy and CancerI’m trying to come to terms with it all, with Cancer and with living guilt. The truth is, I get jealous. The truth is, my whole life is a…Oct 17, 2016Oct 17, 2016
VTalking Caregiving….It occurs to me right now, after an afternoon spent in talking about Cancer, that for the first time, since I became a Cancer Caregiving…Oct 16, 2016Oct 16, 2016
VThe Unroutine of Cancer Marker TestsAfter six years at oncology, I am familiar enough with the place, with spinal taps and with the taking of marrow fluid to not flinch when…Oct 14, 2016Oct 14, 2016