Thanks for your courage. Yes, you are right. We are expected to suffer when we abort, but some simply don’t.
One thing I wonder: Why have I never heard a single word from a man who aborted? It takes two to conceive a child and in probably most cases men are part of the decicion. Do they suffer? Do they feel bad about it? Do they get judged? Do they feel shame because they did not get conception right? And nobody even asks this questions. Men keep very quiet when it comes to talk about their own experiences but some are very quick to judge woman.