Thanks Jason for writing about this. I can relate to those secrets having been in your situation, thankfully not as bad as yours. It’s mind numbing the amount of energy these people pour into keeping the illusion alive while the boat sinks. I can’t think of many animals that do this to their offsprings. Things can only get better when all of us speak out first and the tension gets unbearable enough to do something together. One thing is for sure, I still can’t accept and probably will never accept the status quo. The problem is that can leave us in limbo.