As a guy, I think its a fine list, although I’d guess physical attraction seems to be a glaring omission regardless the sex. This is different from saying someone has to be beautiful.
But I guess my issue with lists like this is how would you operationalize this? Is this something you would use to compare in thinking about a potential marriage? If so, it sort of makes sense, but I’d guess your actual feelings and circumstance would dominate, even if, say, your partner was a slob, or not very spontaneous (Do you have something against engineers?). If the list is used as an up-front check, I am not sure how you could operationalize it.