Yes, the epitomy of hate is expecting people to be responsible and adult enough to control their basic urges, not to be violent towards fellow humans, to experience a full range of emotion and not be bound by outdated gender roles.
That’s so hateful. I don’t know how men cope.
Feminism is not ‘man-hating’ — that’s what men who hate women have redefined it as. Good luck to you in your PhD, author — it’s not easy, I know!