Thank you for sharing your experience Stella. You are indeed braver than most and if Mike is going to guilt you for it, move on. Using sexual network theory, it’s really complicated to trace the source in your case and who is to say he didn’t have it prior to you as Chlamydia is asymptomatic in men?
I had a partner freak out when I told him I get tested every three months. I do that for my own peace of mind and to detect any conditions early. Also, because I work in Public Health and feel hypocritical advising people to do so if I don ‘t.