Everyone brings their emotions and their personal issues to the table in any form of communication. There is no perfect way to craft a message so it is understood perfectly. This is why it’s best not to engage with every comment or argue every point. In the end, you won’t be understood as you wish, but rather as the listener/reader wants to interpret the message according to his/her particular psychological need. Being at peace with this reality is what you may want to focus upon rather than any sense that finding the perfect expressions will clarify your message.