Timothy Osaretin
2 min readJan 1, 2024
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"Escape the Tragedy of Complacency and Soar to New Heights in Self-Discovery”

In the delicate dance of life, our genuine tragedy frequently takes the form of complacency rather than failure. According to Benjamin E. Mays, "The tragedy of life is often not in our failure, but rather in our complacency; not in our doing too much, but rather in our doing too little; not in our living above our ability, but rather in our living below our capacities."

How many of us find solace in the familiarity of routines, doing only what’s necessary? The sorrow lies in settling for mediocrity and ignoring our tremendous pool of untapped potential. Being not just about exhausting ourselves; it’s about breaking free from the constraints of doing too little.

Picture a life lived to the fullest, transcending the self-imposed boundaries we place on our potential. The journey to self-improvement isn't a sprint; it's a collection of purposeful steps. Begin by acknowledging your passions and dreams, those sparks within. Put them on paper, nurture them, and witness them evolve into a roadmap for your future.

Take small, steady steps every day. These aren't huge leaps, but rather modest steps that add up over time. Read that unread book, learn a new skill, or connect with someone who inspires you. These seemingly insignificant actions create momentum, moving you toward your goals.

Embrace discomfort; that's where growth thrives. Challenge yourself beyond your comfort zone, for it's in those uneasy moments that you unveil your true potential. The more you stretch, the more your capacities expand, turning what once seemed insurmountable into newfound strength.

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Forge connections within a supportive community. Share your journey, seek advice, and be receptive to learning from others. Their experiences may offer insights that accelerate your progress. Remember, the tragedy isn't in aiming high and falling short; it's in aiming too low and hitting the mark. Break free from complacency, explore your capacities, and live a life beyond your perceived limits.

You have the ability to live the life of your dreams, no matter how impractical they may be. So, never stop dreaming, never stop pushing yourself, never settle for less than your full potential, and never stop improving.

I hope that you strive in doing these things!