That's not so. This isn't a bad person, but a deeply wounded person. I think childhood must have been One. Shit. Time. If he hadn't been shown he wasn't deserving of love in childhood he wouldn't act like he was undeserving of love now.

I don't think this person meant to hurt anyone. He just lets himself get steamrolled, and then acts out once he is absolutely CRAZY with pain.

Over and over and over and over and over.