There Is No Such Thing As A Bitch

Did I get your attention?

Good.

Cause what I really meant to say was that there is no such thing as rejection.

And because there is no such thing as rejection, there is no such thing as a bitch.

Woah woah, put the torch down and tell the lynch mob to go home…

Hear me out first.

What is the one thing in your life that you have absolute and total control over?

That’s right — YOU.

Your actions, more specifically.

And for some that is a frightening thought, but for others — those who are on their path, and living in accordance with their highest values and mission — this is a liberating concept.

It means that there is never any cause for anxiety, since anxiety arises when you are banking on a specific result.

No result = no anxiety.

So what does all of this have to do with ‘bitches’?

Well, if all you have control over are your own actions, then all you ever really have to do is take action.

This is a cornerstone of my philosophy on life:

Everyone has the right to invite, everyone has the right to refuse.

Once you stop feeling like someone OWES you a positive response, you realize that people are what they are…

And yes, women are people.

Maybe she had a bad day?

Maybe she actually likes you but is insecure about it?

There’s a ton of maybe’s but no reason to ever stop you from taking action and showing up.

Seriously.

Drop the bitch thing — seduction is about empathy.

Let he be as she is.

All you ever have to do is show up and invite.

Then, she can accept or refuse, but either way you’re still you.

Get out there!

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