Let’s Start Dating!
Polyamory, swinging, BDSM, kink, and whatever else you are reading about, researching, or planning is nice to think about. But if you aren’t taking active steps to cultivate the healthy relationships required to actually act these things out, you are more fan than participant.
So it’s time to stop reading and time to take action!
By following this tutorial, you will move from student to practitioner instantly.
Step 1
Hopefully over the past 12 months, you’ve been taking pictures of yourself in various situations. And, if you are smart, you are backing these up to Google Photos.
Open Google Photos and type in the search term “selfies” at the top.
You will now see a collection of photographs of you. Pick about 10 of them, and then of those, pick your 3 favorites.
Add them to a new Album called Dating Profile Pictures, and them download them. Here is a photo I currently use as one of my three.
Step 2
Register with accounts on OKCupid, MeetMe, and Tinder. These three, and exactly these three. No more, no less.
Fill out the basic information on each, and put in a 1 or 2 sentence profile with exactly what you are looking for. If you are polyamorous, say so. If you are into D/s…
