Samuel Obi
2 min readJun 21, 2024

Today is my Dad’s birthday. I almost forgot, but it’s not just any day; it’s also the day we lay my Dad’s younger sister to rest.



This coincidence is a keen reminder of the delicate balance of life—how joy and sorrow can coexist in the same breath. While we celebrate the life and legacy of my aunt, we also remember to cherish my Dad on his special day. It’s a day filled with mixed emotions, but above all, it’s a day to hold our loved ones close, honor their lives, and find comfort in the memories we share.



Losing my aunt is a heart-wrenching event for our family. She was a vibrant and loving person, always bringing joy and warmth to our lives. Today, as we say our final goodbyes, we are reminded of the impact she had on all of us. Her laughter, her kindness, and her spirit will forever be etched in our hearts. Even though she is no longer with us, her memory lives on, and we will cherish it forever.



Amidst the sadness, we also have a reason to celebrate. Today is my Dad’s birthday, a day to honor and appreciate the man who has always been a pillar of strength for our family. My Dad has taught us the importance of resilience, love, and togetherness. His wisdom and guidance have shaped us into who we are today. On this special day, we want to remind him how much he means to us.



It’s not easy to find the right words when our hearts are heavy with grief. But it’s important to remember that life is a blend of joy and sorrow, of celebrations and farewells. Today, we are reminded to hold our loved ones a little tighter, to appreciate the time we have with them, and to find solace in the memories we have created together.



Happy birthday, Dad. We love you, and we are here for you. Even in times of sadness, we find strength in each other, and today is no different. As we celebrate your special day, we also honor the beautiful life of your sister. May we continue to support one another, to cherish each moment, and to find comfort in the love that binds us.



We may be facing a tough day, but together, we will get through it. We will remember the joy your sister brought into our lives and the wonderful father you have always been. Here’s to celebrating life, in all its complexities, and to finding hope and happiness amidst the challenges.

Samuel Obi

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