Way to miss the point. If that’s what masculinity represents to you, go for it. But to many people it means something else. Some good, some bad. The article is an example of how fixating on a single, very restricted idea of masculinity can be very harmful. This is to show an example of what toxic masculinity is. The point is not to dictate what is masculinity, or how it should be defined, or how you should express it yourself. That’s up to you.