I still carry some shame around the topic of self-pleasuring. Although I have implied in previous articles that I am engaging in it, I always felt a bit embarrassed. I mean, my mum reads what I write. And her husband. And so are some of my friends and acquaintances. Am I really going to let all of them know that I am enjoying solo sex? And how much details will I reveal? Will I blush next time they’ll tell me they liked my article???