A letter to myself — 10 things I wished someone told me

Aphinya Dechalert
Black Cat Diaries
Published in
4 min readApr 8, 2018

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Dear me,

Yes. I’m talking to you — miss never feeling right or quite fitting in. If time travel somehow became a reality and you managed to get this letter, here are 10 things that you ought to read.

I know this because growing up, you never really had these advice and when they did come, it was a little tad later than it should have been. So listen up, younger me, I’ve got important things to tell you.

1. Confidence

Have confidence in your abilities. You will fail your first driving test, not because you’ve messed up in some way, but because you lacked confidence in high speeds areas. The last thing the tester wants is a gawky teen who is unsure about her own skills.

Life is like driving and if you’re not confident in what you’re doing, accidents can happen. When you’re uncertain, you become a hazard to yourself and those on the road.

Check your wing and back mirrors then make a decision. Either change lane or stay. Don’t hesitate or else you’re going to miss your exit.

2. Dress up every day

I know you’re a low maintenance kind of girl, but it doesn’t mean you have to be a slob. Find clothes you actually like and fits you properly. Experiment a…

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Aphinya Dechalert
Black Cat Diaries

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