Not sure how they are gonna show up in the comment, but I’ve highlighted all the times where you could have dealt with the problem, but didn’t. The sooner you nip the problem in the butt, the better. Early on it can be as easy as stating that you have no interest in them. Be as blunt as possible, because when they are seeing the world through rose-colored glasses they won’t catch hints. Personally, I found this article rather enlightening regardless, because I normally hear about this from the male point of view and you can imagine that they have no idea what is going on the female’s mind. I’ve also never seen it go on for so long without becoming physically violent.

Truly interesting article, thanks for writing it.