I cannot relate to this at all. Maybe it’s because I don’t have a high-powered career, I’m a graphic designer in the suburbs. Maybe it’s because I’ve never been a party girl. Personally I drink to deal with my depression. And even on up days I might drink just to relieve stress and help me sleep. It doesn’t have anything to do with anyone else. If anything I feel pressure not to drink because I don’t want my husband to worry or notice how much I feel I need it some days.