Joe Dininni
Jul 20, 2017 · 1 min read

Thanks for the insight, Lalaina!

Definitely hard to hear sometimes, but it’s true.

We should be looking for Mr. or Ms. Kind, Considerate and Compatible.

Barring any major philosophical disparities that you just can’t work through, it’s just about finding a real and open person, hopefully one we find attractive, and seeing how you get along. If it becomes a great relationship, it’s not because you built up that chemistry in your imagination and created it, it’s because you both built it together in real life.

Reasonable imperfections can add to a couple’s sense of oneness, as long as these imperfections aren’t abusive or manipulative. The more your significant other understands you on a deep level that few others do, the more significant your connection will be.

Don’t judge so hard. Pay attention to which people you choose to interact with, but give them all a chance to fill whatever role they’re meant to in your life.

Don’t miss out on friendships because you’re trying to make them your partner, and don’t miss out on relationships because you think they’re too perfect (or imperfect) for you.

Love everyone, and the appropriate form of love will manifest itself.

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