I can see that, we seem to be in an age where socially males must fit what’s accepted in the female frame. A an attempt to make men more malleable only in terms of what women see or understand. IMO it’s unhealthy but that’s a deeper more overarching issue. At times for me can it can void some of what you’ve highlighted as motive for the OPs writing style. Your statments are useful.
Maybe I’ll re-read with the description you shared in mind.