What Are You Waiting For?
We all want the kind of change we dream of having in our lives. And we don’t always get it in the way we expect it to be received. Nor how long it takes till that day comes when that life we dream of living has arrived.
You must make a decision that you are going to move on. It won’t happen automatically. You will have to rise up and say, “I don’t care how hard this is, I don’t care how disappointed I am. I’m not going to let thsi get the best of me. I’m moving on with my life.
I’m somewhere between giving up and seeing how much more I can take.
Trying harder to make things work like a relationship is never easy. I may not have any examples or experiences with that area yet only being 20 years of age, female.
But I do know that if both partners/friends want the relationship to work meaning that it’s real and truthful, then they both will do what they need to, in order to make it work. By finding ways to cope with the power and pain that is involved when things get tough and to make new promises or strengthen their old ones to make the relationship stronger!
The only thing standing between you and your goals is the bullshit story you keep telling yourself.
Make the right choices and decisions. And take your time, it’s not the end of the world! That’s the anxiety talking to you, convincing you too easily and fast that the world will end if we mess something up or make mistakes. Making mistakes is part of being human.
And no matter what happens, we will continue to make mistakes because they can teach us things that we can put into our lives to improve and then become stronger and make us stronger and wiser each and every day.
One of the hardest parts of life is deciding whether to walk away or try harder.
I love the person I’ve become, because I fought to become her