Showcasing the extreme stupidity and low self esteem of the typical modern female?

Low self esteem and stupidity? I feel these are quite loaded words. Presenting the whimsical sometimes hilarious words of men who have had sex with you is surely taking control of how you represent yourself sexually, which doesn’t scream low self esteem to me? I think the intention for irony needs recognising too! In a way is she not projecting the ‘vulnerable’ ‘low self esteem’ caricature modern society wants women to conform to?