I understand what you mean.
Soumya John

Fair point.

On a tangential note, isn’t it the uncertainty, the irrationality and the serendipity that makes love special? Why mandate a ‘best practice’ of telling each other what they want sooner than later, just to address the risk of a relationship being in limbo owing to fear? When the notion of such a ‘best practice’ is acknowledged, we are also implicitly acknowledging that there is a ‘process’ to love, and that disturbs me. :P

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