For someone that lives with chronic illness, I am sick and have to cancel. I’m not going to sit there and give a long diatribe of what I’m feeling and the extent of by being sick. Usually when I have to cancel on someone for being ill, that spells the end of whatever may have been. They think it’s a lie or an excuse or whatever. It’s not easy and I shouldn’t have to explain myself. But I get what your trying to get across here. Please don’t dismiss someone who is actually sick.